How to Free Up Mental Space & Reclaim Your Energy
- Mel Cunningham
- Mar 14
- 2 min read
Updated: Mar 28
The Silent Energy Drain You Didn’t See Coming
Ever feel like your brain is constantly overloaded? Like there’s a never-ending list of things to remember, decisions to make, and tasks pulling at your attention? It’s not just you. Mental clutter is one of the biggest silent energy drains—and it’s keeping you stuck in stress and overwhelm.
The good news? You don’t need more time—you need more mental space. And the shift starts with just 1%.
Why Your Brain Feels Overloaded
Your mind is like a computer. The more tabs you have open, the slower it runs. Every unfinished task, unmade decision, or lingering thought is an open loop that takes up space in your brain. Here’s what’s draining your mental energy:
✔ Overthinking and replaying past mistakes
✔ Constantly switching between tasks (multitasking is a myth!)
✔ Keeping track of everything in your head instead of writing it down
✔ Holding onto “shoulds” and expectations that don’t align with you
✔ Saying yes to things that drain you instead of protect your energy
These small energy leaks build up, leading to exhaustion, frustration, and decision fatigue.

The 1% Shift: How to Free Up Mental Space
Instead of trying to overhaul everything, let’s start small. A tiny shift can create a massive impact.
Here’s how to reclaim your energy and create more space for clarity and focus.
Step 1: Identify & Close Open Loops
Ask yourself: What’s lingering in my mind that I haven’t completed, decided, or let go of?
✔ A small task you keep putting off? (Send that email, schedule that appointment)
✔ A decision you’ve been delaying? (Pick one option and move forward)
✔ A mental story that’s taking up space? (Rewrite it or release it)
Your brain holds onto these unresolved things like open browser tabs. Closing just one frees up mental space immediately.
Step 2: Create a Mental Dumping Ground
Your brain is meant for processing, not storing information.
Give it space by:
✔ Brain-dumping your thoughts into a journal or notes app
✔ Using a simple task list instead of keeping everything in your head
✔ Setting reminders so you don’t waste mental energy remembering
Step 3: Set an Energy Protection Filter
Before saying yes to something, ask: Does this add to my energy or drain it?
✔ If it energizes you—make space for it.
✔ If it feels heavy or forced—set a boundary.
✔ If it’s not aligned, let it go.
Less Mental Clutter = More Energy & Clarity
When you clear out mental clutter, you don’t just feel lighter—you reclaim the energy you need to focus on what truly matters.
💭 What’s one open loop you can close today? Drop it in the comments—I’d love to hear!